About Us

Introducing Pollen Care.

Hello, friends!

Meet Michaelene, the face and mom behind Pollen.

Michaelene Dowers brings her experiences as a mother, plus considerable talents, education, and certifications to Pollen’s curated bereavement literature for children and to Quietus Bee’s continuing education courses in funeral service alongside her specialized consulting. For death care professionals in need of guidance in helping children or in culturally or socially sensitive situations, Michaelene offers appropriate, impactful variations on decedent care.

With nearly a decade of experience as a funeral director in Washington, Minnesota, Wisconsin, California, Indiana, Oregon, and Idaho, Michaelene is experienced at navigating the many variations in funeral service law and protocol found throughout the United States. She currently holds certifications and/or licenses as a funeral director and embalmer in these same states. Other qualifications include an associate’s degree in mortuary science from Cypress College, a B.A. in religious studies from Grand Canyon University, an M.A. in emergency/crisis management from American Military University, and an M.A. in thanatology (study of death and dying, grief, loss and bereavement) from Marian University. In 2023, Michaelene received her Fellow in Thanatology from ADEC and is now in a PhD program in Mind-Body Medicine focusing on end-of-life care and trauma at Saybrook University. Michaelene currently works as an adjunct professor at multiple mortuary colleges at both the associate and bachelors degree levels, as well as being a visiting lecturer in funeral service at other colleges nationwide.

About Pollen

Just as pollen is the main source of nutrition for honey bees and essential for the development of the brood and young bees, providing appropriate tools for dealing with grief is essential to a child’s future development and emotional well-being.

The death of a loved one or pet can be especially distressing for a child, as both their lack of experience and their emotional immaturity can contribute to feelings of anxiety and a loss of control. The overwhelming emotions associated with grief can lead to long-term maladaptive behavior if not dealt with appropriately early on.

Through Pollen, thanatologist and grief expert, Michaelene Dowers, provides the tools caregivers need to help children work through their trauma. Michaelene offers curated collections of childhood bereavement literature that is developmentally appropriate and specific to the situation at hand. This literature is designed to provide comfort, help children find ways to express their feelings, encourage the sharing of stories and memories, and help children develop an understanding of death and, as appropriate, the concept of an afterlife or of the loved one living on through family memories and rituals. 

Pollen’s goal is to provide caregivers with the tools needed to teach healthy coping skills and to develop children’s confidence in overcoming adversity.